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Bullying information and support for parent/carers
It is always emotive for Parents/Carers when they find out that their child has been involved in a bullying incident. This is perhaps even more so when they are made aware that their child has been exhibiting bullying behaviour towards others.
One just needs to remember that bullying is not a person but rather a behaviour that anyone is capable of. The critical thing is to recognise this and to encourage some dialogue between yourself and your child to establish the facts. We have compiled some information and tips to help you to identify what bullying is and how to spot the signs.
如果你的孩子欺负别人，8个建议
Your child has told you that they are being bullied - what is next?
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1. Stay calm and reassure your child that you will do everything you can to stop the bullying.
- 请立即与大发体育在线联系. Notify us of what is happening and ask us to put a support plan in place to support your child whilst the issue is being dealt with.
3. Consider speaking with your GP in the interim, if you feel your child’s physical or emotional health is being affected.
该做什么，不该做什么
别:
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不 confront other parents or the child / young person about the behaviour. When emotions are running high, things can quickly get out of hand!
- 不 在社交媒体上发泄你的愤怒! Making comments which could cause further harm or distress to another individual is a criminal offence Under the Malicious Communications Act and you could be visited by the Police! Remember the age of criminal responsibility in England is 10 years of age so this one applies to your children too! When information is out there, it’s out there!
- 不 告诉你的孩子要反击. This can result in an escalation of the problem and your child may then incur a sanction.
- 不 tell your child to “Toughen up, lots of people get bullied, and you have to learn to deal with it!” There is always a power imbalance when a child is being victimised and adults need to intervene to redress the power imbalance
DO:
- DO contact us at school and ask to speak with the person who is responsible for tackling bullying. This member of staff will address the allegation of bullying and investigate the incident thoroughly.
- DO 考虑, if your child is experiencing bullying in the community because of a disability, 是否可能是"仇恨犯罪"还有, if so if it needs to be reported to us in the first instance and then the Police if necessary.
- DO reassure your child and ask them what they think could be done to make them feel safer. Their ideas can then be shared and used to inform any future support plans
- DO screenshot any offending remarks that have been made on social media to provide evidence of the victimisation and keep a diary of events
- DO contact the police on 101 if your child has suffered a serious assault
- DO model a positive and 考虑ed approach to the problem (harder said than done, we know)! This will give your child an extra sense of security and reassurance.
如果欺凌发生在网上
Whether you are confident online or are not sure where to start here are some tips that might help you further:
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Spend time with your children online, and have them show you their favourite sites. Speak to them about what they are doing on social media: Snapchat, Instagram and Whatsapp etc
- Speak to your child about staying safe online and teach your children “cyber ethics”
- Be computer savvy: use antivirus, antispyware, and a firewall, and keep them updated
- 就使用互联网的规则达成一致
- 教你的孩子告诉父母, teacher or trusted adult if they feel uncomfortable about anything they’ve seen on a computer or online
- Keep communication flowing so your child or young person feels able to talk to you about whatever they are doing online
进一步的帮助和支持
Please rest assured that we take all allegations of bullying very seriously.
请随意查看大发体育在线的 HAMD反欺凌政策2022-23
- 反欺凌联盟:一 父母和照顾者的反欺凌工具
- 如果你需要支持和建议, you can talk to a family support worker at Bullying UK on their confidential helpline on 0808 800 2222.
- 儿童港湾 is a small charity that provides information, 培训, and support for parents and children facing problems to do with bullying. 家长咨询电话:07496 682785.
- 以为你知道 -关于数字安全的建议
- 互联网很重要 – for more information about cyberbullying and online safety
- 我是恶霸吗? If you think your child is bullying others, this BBC guide may help them reflect on their behaviour
- Bullying Parents Guide to 支持 – YoungMinds
2022年反欺凌周
We had some superb contributions for "反欺凌 week", the winning poster is displayed below:
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莎拉Thomas-B9E-1st 奖
- 卡特里娜Vidaseva-R9D-2nd 奖
- Chaima Rizki-R9D-3rd 奖
